you're so bad girl, you're so awful

Anonymous asks: i know you identify as queer but would you date a guy who is? like who has been with other guys?

*cue sitcom laugh track*

this was such a good look i’m so upset 

Ig; tanishapina

Ig; tanishapina

fall wish list continues


I have a picture of you and me in Brooklyn

On a porch, it was raining.

Hey, I remember that day

and I miss you.

(15,797 plays)

Anonymous asks: You are my inspiration

ooooh :-) this made me smile real big

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YOU DEMANDED IT! Check out the full-length official trailer for Dear White People before it hits theaters this weekend. 

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Anonymous asks: would you say you shouldn't date a white guy if their parents/extended family are racists? like, maybe the guy is educated on issues of race and is fully aware of white privilege and isn't problematic himself, but his family isn't the same way. what do you think one should do in that situation?

it totally depends on so many factors. has he confronted them and attempted to bring these issues to light + educate them? are his parents nearby? would i have to see them often? does he speak to them? like if they’re best friends and are always around and he hasn’t said one word to him no i wouldn’t that is terrifying ?

i know first hand there are some people you just can’t waste your energy on after trying one too many times. and for that reason i’ve let go of those friendships/relationships. it just depends.

Anonymous asks: Hey, I read on your blog you were 200+ pounds. I am currently overweight and I HATE myself. i can't even look at myself, my glasses have to be off when I have to look at myself. I used to be 125 pounds but after I was bullied in high school (the final straw) I stopped all my physical activities and packed on the pounds. I was also sexually abused when I was a kid. Was there any particular diet/exercise regimen you followed? You look AMAZING BTW!

): i’m sorry that happened to you.  i started with the 90 day insanity program and then started pilates/kick boxing/running etc. all workout / diet related stuff is all tagged here ! hope it helps pretty.

Hidden alleyway flower shop. (at Hundred Acres)

Hidden alleyway flower shop. (at Hundred Acres)


But that joke isn’t funny anymore, it’s too close to home and it’s too near the bone.


But that joke isn’t funny anymore, it’s too close to home and it’s too near the bone.

we have left over cider from the event last night so tyler and i are tipsy af at work :~)